10% Happier by Dan Harris

10% Happier

8.9/102 min read

6/18/20

  • Meditation is simply exercise for your brain

  • The price of security is insecurity

  • Our entire lives are governed by a voice in our heads. This voice is engaged in a ceaseless stream of thinking—most of it negative, repetitive, and self-referential. The voice is constantly judging and labeling everything in its field of visions. It’s targets aren’t just external; it often viciously taunts us, too

  • The ego is our inner narrator, our sense of “I”

  • When we are unaware of “the egoic mind,” we blindly act out our thoughts, and often the results are not pretty

  • The ego is never satisfied. The ego never feels complete.

  • The ego is obsessed with the past and the future, at the expense of the present

  • Always say “yes” to the present moment

  • In a world where everything is constantly changing, we suffer because we cling to things that won’t last

  • Nothing lasts—including us

  • The route to true happiness is to achieve a visceral understanding of impermanence, which will take you off the emotional roller coaster and allow you to see your dramas and desires through a much wider lens

  • Mindfulness is the ability to recognize what is happening in your mind right now without getting carried away by it

  • Our culture conditions us to believe that the more pleasant experiences we have the happier we’ll be

  • The key is not to get carried away by desire; we need to manage it with wisdom and mindfulness

  • Do only one thing at a time